Kids and Puppies
You just brought the new pup home and now you are concerned
he won't get along with your kids. This can cause anxiety in
you and the pup. Sometimes introducing the pup in a quiet room
and maybe letting the child give him a treat as well. This may
show the pup he can trust the child. Don't force the puppy into
a meeting he isn't ready to handle yet.
Children should be prepared and told about the new pet
coming. They should ask questions about anything they are
uncertain of concerning the puppy. They should be told how to
treat the new puppy so it won't feel scared or frightened and
try to bite.
Read a book concerning puppy care to the child. Show them
how to pick up the puppy without hurting it. You may need to
set some ground rules concerning how much the child can handle
the pup.
They should know never to hit or hurt the puppy. Tell them
how it may retaliate and become aggressive. Watch that they
don't step on him or pinch his ears.
Do not let the child have responsibility over the animal.
They can help with feeding and playing, but an adult needs to
oversee the process. Teach them to love and nurture the puppy
so that it will grow into a lovable affectionate dog.
Under no circumstances should the child play tug-of-war with
the puppy. This is a dominance game to the puppy and even if
the child wins, the puppy thinks it is alright to play rough in
the future. Also do not the child growl or bark at he dog at
this can frighten the puppy as well.
If time is taken to teach children the proper way of
treating the new puppy, everyone can live together happily most
of the time. There are a few instances where the breed of dog
would not allow this to happen.
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